Have you ever tried on the wrong garment? How do you feel when that happens? Do you simply change the garment right away or do you beat yourself up? "If I was fat it would fit", "If this wasn't so big or that wasn't so big then it would fit right." Or do you put it on the garment? "If it was a little longer here", "if they just designed it with a little more room here", "If this one part wasn't right here, I mean what were they thinking?"
Has this ever happened to you?
So, what about life? What happens when you are wrong in life? Do you think "If only I were different or if only the other person was different?"
Is it possible that nothing or no one actually needs to be different? Is it possible that it just wasn't a good fit for the moment, in either case? Can something not fit for the moment and still be ok? Does it have to change to be the "perfect" fit?
If you make the commitment, then how long will you hold on to that 1 item that doesn't fit quite right thinking "it's going to be right someday." Do you still have those things hanging around?
Maybe it is time for a cleaning...In the closet. in life, or in perception.
Has this ever happened to you?
So, what about life? What happens when you are wrong in life? Do you think "If only I were different or if only the other person was different?"
Is it possible that nothing or no one actually needs to be different? Is it possible that it just wasn't a good fit for the moment, in either case? Can something not fit for the moment and still be ok? Does it have to change to be the "perfect" fit?
If you make the commitment, then how long will you hold on to that 1 item that doesn't fit quite right thinking "it's going to be right someday." Do you still have those things hanging around?
Maybe it is time for a cleaning...In the closet. in life, or in perception.
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